- Is infantilism something sexual?
Yes and no, it depends. It is a certain feeling of security, protective and warmth. You can get sexually aroused wearing a diaper or whenever somebody changes it. Myself does not like a diaper change by anybody else. Some AB/DL like to "give their feeling" to the caretaker and some do like to play in peace in their diapers with their toys etc...
Infantilism is also something that is present in the bdsm world, this because the wearing of a diaper could be a certain humiliation.
This does not mean you need to be active in the bdsm world or you need to be sexually aroused because you like to wear diapers, it's just a broad answer.
- Is infantilism safe?
Infantilism is very safe and harmless. It could be unsafe if you are getting problems psychologically because you are not being accepted because it sounds "perverse" or "not normal". This could lead a infantile isolates himself with even suicide or self-mutilation as consequence. The same as gays who can not come "out the closet" because they are not being accepted by their parents or society.
- Does infantilism has anything to do with children or pedophiles?
Much asked question but very easy answer. It has NOTHING to do with children. You do not need to be afraid it has anything to do with pedophile. It all is about wearing diapers and feelings that bring your inner-child above yourself. It has no relation with children except that children do also wear diapers; but children do also eat and drink, just like anybody. You become child as infantile.
- Am I gay because I like diapers?
There are straight, bisexual and gay infantiles. Some wearing a diaper do not even know their sexual preference. I am bi. Infantism can be a sexual fetish but also a feeling of protection.
- Why am I infantile or why do I like diapers?
This is not a easy answer. This can be because of stress or a trauma in your youth. It can be a shortcoming in the youth. It can be you needed to grow up faster because society asks you to and you did not follow quite easy. This does not mean it can be blamed on your parents. It can be something that's with your birth or you can just feel very good in certain situations. With other people it's a fetish to be helpless... There are so many factors and answers that a simple answer cannot be given.
- Where can I get diapers?
Easy question, easy answer... You can find them on the net, on my links page there are certain references to such shops. You can find them in a medical shop, pharmacy, ...
I got them from a medical shop and I am very satisfied about them. Over the net you cannot always know which size you need. This is measured with the width of your hips. For Tena diapers it is:
- "small" : between 50 and 80cm
- "medium" : between 70 and 118cm
- "large" : between 100 and 150cm
I am using the "Euron Form" diapers, light green (Medium). A small does not fit and a medium just fits great. I had a pretty red face when the clerk asked me which size I needed but when I got the diapers it was easy after all and it was not needed to be shy at all. It's the same as buying a pack of condoms in your pharmacy; even easier.
- What does AB or DL mean?
AB is "Adult Baby"
a AB has feelings about his "children hood" and wants to be treated as child. He can play with toys, sleep as a baby, have feelings to a box or children chair or can have the feeling to want his diaper changed by a caretaker (daddy/mommy)
DL is "Diaper Lover"
a DL has feelings around diapers. Some DL's like to pee in their diapers and some do like to dump in 'm. The term "messy" is brown and the term "getting wet" is peeing in a diaper.
A DL is not neccesarely a AB but a AB is mostly DL.
I am 50% AB and 50% DL. I like to sleep with my bear, like a popsicle sometimes, like diapers, am very playful and my rooms are decorated quite playful (with Poohbear etc...). I do not like to "mess" up my diapers and do not pee in them most of the times.
- Am I sick because I am AB or DL ?
Is this acceptable ?
You are sure not sick, you are not a menace to society, you are who you are. Because you wear diapers or search protection in yourself you do not change who you are. You will not change or you will not get gay or pedophile because you like diapers. A lot of people have a fetish or need to something more, some people listen to music, some meditate, others do like certain sexual games like bondage or touching the nipples ... This not more and less than a personal feeling that you can use for yourself or feel bad because you hide it from yourself and do not accept it. You can go to a doctor but he will not take the feeling away, he can talk it away, you can take medicines but at the end it will be the same result and you will never be able to cut your feelings away from your heart. A man is a man, a woman is a woman, a gay is a gay, straight is straight and a white person is a white person. You can talk whatever you want, it is and stays like that, be yourself!
